Let me tell you something you already know.

This is Human Psychology and we all are aware of it. but still we are not able to make an appropriate path for ourselves. If you're automatically sure that you know what reality is and who and what is really important . 

But if you've really learned how to think how to pay attention then you'll know you have other options. It will actually be within your power to experience a crowded  hell-type situation as not only meaningful but sacred on fire with the same force that lit the stars love fellowship the mystical oneness of all things deep down. Really when I look back on it I wouldn’t change a thing. I mean it was so important for me to lose everything because I found out what the most important thing is to be true to yourself. 

Ultimately that’s what’s gotten me to this place. I don’t live in fear. I’m free. I have no secrets and I know I’ll always be OK, because no matter what, I know who I am.You just need to know one thing that if you want to win hearts and minds you have to lead with your heart as well as your mind. Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You me or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. 

But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done. I think that allowing somebody one mere person to believe that he or she is like the vessel you know like the font and the essence and the source of all divine creative unknowable eternal mystery is just a smudge too much responsibility to put on one fragile human psychology. It's like asking somebody to swallow the sun. It just completely warps and distorts egos and it creates all these unmanageable expectations about performance. And I think the pressure of that has been killing off ourselves for the last few years.